What I Had to Leave Behind to Step Into My New Season
There are seasons in life when God calls us to let go. Sometimes it’s gentle. Sometimes it’s abrupt. But every season of growth, every step into something new, requires leaving something behind. For me, stepping into this new chapter meant releasing things that I thought were essential—things that once felt familiar, safe, or even empowering—but were actually holding me back.
This post isn’t about shame. It’s about surrender. A quiet shift. A change in appetite. A divine refining.
Here’s what I had to leave behind to fully step into the new season God has for me:
1. Fear of Not Being Enough
I used to worry endlessly about measuring up—to God, to others, even to myself. Every decision felt like a test, and every misstep felt like failure. Over time, I realized that fear only kept me from stepping fully into the purpose God had for me. Letting it go didn’t mean I became perfect; it meant I started trusting God’s timing, plan, and approval above anyone else’s expectations.
2. Toxic Relationships
Some people in my life were draining—not intentionally, maybe—but their energy and influence kept me stuck in patterns I needed to break. I had to step away from people who were comfortable to keep, but not life-giving. Choosing peace over comfort wasn’t easy, but it was necessary. Surrounding myself with those who uplift, encourage, and align with God’s purpose has made all the difference.
3. Dreams That No Longer Fit
I chased things that looked good on paper, things that were expected of me, or things I wanted before I truly sought God’s direction. Some goals simply weren’t meant to last, and clinging to them only delayed the season God was preparing. Learning to discern what aligns with His calling has been freeing—even when it meant saying goodbye to what I thought I wanted.
4. Limiting Habits
Old habits—scrolling too much, overcommitting, overthinking—kept me stuck in cycles of distraction and exhaustion. Letting go didn’t happen overnight. It meant replacing unproductive routines with practices that bring peace, rest, and focus. It meant learning to prioritize my energy, my time, and my relationship with God over fleeting comforts.
5. Comparison & Approval-Seeking
I used to measure my journey against everyone else’s highlight reel—careers, relationships, social media posts. I constantly sought validation from the wrong places. Letting go of comparison didn’t just lighten my mind; it changed my entire perspective. My growth is my growth, and God’s timing is perfect—even if it doesn’t look like anyone else’s.
6. Fear of Change
Change used to terrify me. New opportunities, new seasons, new responsibilities—I avoided them because I was afraid of failing, of the unknown. But God reminded me that change is often the doorway to growth. Learning to embrace it, rather than fear it, has made stepping into this new season far less daunting.
7. Self-Doubt
I doubted myself more than I’d like to admit. Every decision felt heavy because I feared making the wrong choice. But I’ve learned to lean on God instead of myself. When I step forward in faith, trusting His guidance, I move with more confidence than self-reliance ever allowed.
8. Past Hurt & Resentment
Holding onto anger, disappointment, or resentment was a weight I carried silently. Releasing it didn’t mean excusing wrongs; it meant giving them to God and trusting Him to handle the justice and healing. Peace came when I stopped carrying burdens that weren’t mine to carry.
9. People-Pleasing
Saying yes to everyone and everything used to feel like loyalty or love. But in reality, it cost me my peace, my time, and my purpose. Learning to set boundaries and prioritize God’s will has been one of the most freeing lessons in this season.
10. The Need to Control Everything
Control is a tricky thing. I used to think I had to micromanage my life to make it work. God has shown me that surrendering control doesn’t mean giving up—it means trusting Him to orchestrate what I cannot. Letting go of control has opened doors I didn’t even know existed.
Reflection:
Letting go is hard. Growth is messy. But every habit, mindset, or relationship I released made space for peace, clarity, and divine opportunity. This season isn’t about perfection—it’s about becoming the woman God designed me to be, fully aligned with His purpose.
💬 Let’s Talk: What’s something you’ve had to leave behind to step into your season? Or something you’re still working to release? Share in the comments, and let’s encourage one another.
Disclaimer 1:
This blog post is based on my personal experiences and prayerful reflections. I’ve been through these moments of discernment, loss, and clarity. This message comes from a place of process—not perfection.
Disclaimer 2:
As always, I encourage you to take everything back to God’s Word. Study the Scriptures mentioned here. Ask the Holy Spirit to speak to your heart and confirm what is true for your walk. Let Scripture—not people—be your ultimate source of wisdom and clarity.